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Reverb10: Installment 4

by Sarah Novak on January 1, 2011

Hi All- One of my favorite annual traditions is to reflect on the year I’m finishing and set some intentions for the year ahead.  This year I happened to stumble across a really great tool that is facilitating the process for me.  It’s an online writing initiative titled #Reverb10.

So what is it?  Basically, #Reverb10 is an online initiative that encourages participants to reflect on the year past and manifest what’s next for them.  Essentially, it’s an opportunity to consider the reverberations of your past year, and be intentional about those you’d like to create in the year ahead.

This process is facilitated using a question a day from 31 different authors.  Each day has a specific theme to it, which you’ll see noted below.  The questions (or prompts, as they call them) can be found here: THE PROMPTS.  Each one is meant to cause reflection on a different aspect of your life and help you determine if you’d like to shift anything about that area in 2011.

This is my fourth and final installment of questions.  You can find the first HERE, the second HERE, and the third HERE.

December 23 – Theme of the Day: New Name. Let’s meet again, for the first time.  If you could introduce yourself to strangers by another name for just one day, what would it be and why? If I chose to change my name, I’d call myself Ava Copland.  Ava because it’s my current favorite girl name of the moment (and there are just too many Sarahs in the world) and Copland because it sounds elegant and reminds me of Aaron Copland, whose music I like.  On a side note, I tried to convince Nick that we should pick a new last name when we got married (since ours were both so common) but he wouldn’t have anything to do with it.

December 24 – Theme of the Day: Everything’s OK.  What was the best moment that could serve as proof that everything is going to be alright? One of the most profound moments of my year was getting to take a guided tour through the Tondo Dump where 1.5 million people live and scrounge through the garbage each day.  I expected to find deep despair and sadness but instead came face to face with smiling children playing games made of junk and adults repurposing ‘garbage’ to create new treasures.  It was resilience at its best and I knew in that moment that if 1.5 million people could find joy living in the dump, then I too could face whatever circumstances would come at me!

December 25 – Theme of the Day: Photo.  A present to yourself.  Sift through all the photos of you from the past year. Choose one that best captures you; either who you are, or who you strive to be. Find the shot of you that is worth a thousand words. Share the image, who shot it, where, and what it best reveals about you.

Shot By Nick.  Captures: Joy, Beauty, Playfulness.

December 26 – Theme of the Day: Soul Food.  What did you eat this year that you will never forget? What went into your mouth & touched your soul? The food experience that stands out most was the non-stop stream of culinary delights that surrounded me on Labor Day weekend at our Wisconsin cabin.  Burgers, corn, friend potatoes, puppy chow, monster cookies, bars…. The list goes on and on.  What I had forgotten was how connected our memories are to our senses; so as each item went into my mouth, a flood of wonderful MN-based memories came rushing back.  It was heaven!

December 27 – Theme of the Day: Ordinary Joy.  Our most profound joy is often experienced during ordinary moments. What was one of your most joyful ordinary moments this year?  Spending an entire Sunday in bed with my husband cuddling and giggling together — whiling away the hours reading and enjoying each other’s company.

December 28 – Theme of the Day: Achieve.  What’s the thing you most want to achieve next year? How do you imagine you’ll feel when you get it? Having a baby was the first thing that came to mind, but it feels wrong somehow putting that into the achievement category, so I think I’ll choose something else.  Developing my business is definitely at the top of my list.  Specifically, I’d like to develop a full range of program offerings so that I have options available at every price point and can make it easy for people of any financial means to work with me.  I know this will feel incredibly satisfying on a soul level, as it allows me to help others while doing the thing I excel at.  There’s nothin’ better than that in my book…

December 29 – Theme of the Day: Defining Moment. Describe a defining moment or series of events that has affected your life this year.  The one that immediately popped for me was the opportunity I had to coach a cancer patient at Carewell last March.  What was unique about this coaching session was that the woman could not speak but adamantly wanted to be coached.  I had no idea how I was going to communicate with her but trusted that my creativity and resourcefulness would show me the way.  What emerged was a 3-way dance between her, myself and spirit that left the room of observers profoundly moved.  The client was forever changed on that day – her stream of tears dried up and was replaced by a sense of quiet inner confidence; a knowing that this disease would not get the better of her.  And I was left marveling at God’s presence in my coaching, realizing that I had found a new way of connecting to Source.  It was, quite honestly, miraculous.

December 30 – Theme of the Day: Gift.  This month, gifts and gift-giving can seem inescapable. What’s the most memorable gift, tangible or emotional, you received this year?  I was profoundly touched by two birthday gifts that I received this year.  One was an essay from a young woman I had mentored.  In the essay, she wrote about my impact on her life and the inspiration I had provided for her.  It was incredibly moving to be acknowledged in that way.  The second gift was from a friend in Manila who offered up a mass on my behalf.  I felt unworthy of this great gift, but did my best to receive it openly.  It seemed quite fitting in a year that was characterized by my reconnection to my spirituality.

December 31 – Theme of the Day: Core Story. What central story is at the core of you, and how do you share it with the world? The central story at the core of me is my steadfast belief that adversity is a catalyst for deep transformation.  I was fortunate enough to learn this lesson early in life and know I am supposed to share it with others.  I feel very deeply that this work chose me and I’ve elected to share it with the world in two primary ways: through my coaching work and in how I show up in the world – letting others see my struggles instead of pretending they don’t exist.  What a gift it is to transform someone’s perspective on adversity from one of anger/resentment to that of gratitude!

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Reverb10: Installment 3

by Sarah Novak on December 25, 2010

Hi All- One of my favorite annual traditions is to reflect on the year I’m finishing and set some intentions for the year ahead.  This year I happened to stumble across a really great tool that is facilitating the process for me.  It’s an online writing initiative titled #Reverb10.

So what is it?  Basically, #Reverb10 is an online initiative that encourages participants to reflect on the year past and manifest what’s next for them.  Essentially, it’s an opportunity to consider the reverberations of your past year, and be intentional about those you’d like to create in the year ahead.

This process is facilitated using a question a day from 31 different authors.  Each day has a specific theme to it, which you’ll see noted below.  The questions (or prompts, as they call them) can be found here: THE PROMPTS.  Each one is meant to cause reflection on a different aspect of your life and help you determine if you’d like to shift anything about that area in 2011.

This is my third installment of questions.  You can find the first HERE and the second HERE.

December 15 – Theme of the Day: 5 MinutesImagine you will completely lose your memory of 2010 in five minutes. Set an alarm for five minutes and capture the things you most want to remember about 2010.

Travel. Love. Coaching. Healthy discomfort. Beaches. Mother Nature. OBBW. Minnesota. Falling apart. Tithing. Spirituality. Powerful intentions. Nick. Norma. Rudy. Sel. Deep connection. Cancer. Courage. Finding purpose. Anointed. Helicopter. Tondo. Whale Sharks. Unparalleled Beauty. Joy.

December 16 – Theme of the Day: FriendshipHow has a friend changed you or your perspective on the world this year?  Was this change gradual, or a sudden burst?

This year I was very blessed to have a friendship come into my life that really stretched me.  The relationship and the learnings it brought came on very suddenly, yet I know that the resulting changes will alter the course of my future.  At first, I had a hard time recognizing it as a friendship because it didn’t look anything like other relationships I’d known.  There was no one year courtship where we ‘got to know each other’; we were 15 years apart in age; she was a mother and I was not; and we were even from different countries.  Yet the pull toward each other was so magnetic that I don’t believe either of us could have avoided it.

I will forever be grateful to this friend who courageously asked me to jump into the deep end of the pool with her.  You see, I would have much preferred to start shallow and work our way out, but that wasn’t what the circumstances required.   She gave me an incredible gift  in asking me to swim with her.  That opportunity helped me realize what an  immense capacity I have to be with suffering and adversity, which in turn helped me say yes to the calling I was feeling to begin coaching cancer patients.

December 17 – Theme of the Day: Lesson LearnedWhat was the best thing you learned about yourself this past year? And how will you apply that lesson going forward?

The best thing I learned this year was that I have a very deep connection with God and that there are many ways to cultivate that connection beyond the traditional way of going to weekly mass.  In the past I’ve always thought of God as part of church/religion, which meant that the only place I could access him was in a church.  Well in the past few years I haven’t found the right church and really missed my connection to God.

I’m not sure at what point it happened, but I started realizing that God was more present for me in people and nature than in any particular religion or church building.  As soon as I let go of that assumption it was like GOD WAS EVERYWHERE.  God was in the faces of the poverty-stricken children playing a joyful game with bottle caps.  God was there channeling the perfect questions to me as I coached a cancer patient, helping them find peace with their struggle.  God was there in the pristine cliffs of Batanes.   God was in the gratitude filled tears of the barista that openly received my tithe.  It was miraculous, I tell you.  And from that moment on, everything shifted.

I started to pray again.  I asked for signs and received them.  I gave away money without batting an eyelash.  I executed large-scale volunteer projects effortlessly.  I practiced calming my mind with meditation.  I found my calling.  Yes, undoubtedly, I had found my way back to God, church community or not.  And this new God is so much more expansive than the God I used to know.  This God channels through me and helps me put my best gifts/resources to use so that they can multiply.  This God is all about abundance, not scarcity; inspiration, not fear.  This God is equal parts feminine and masculine, taking the best of both energies to create with.  This God intrigues me and makes me want to keep exploring.

For 2011 I am going to take this deep connection and begin to bring it into my work.  For a long time I’ve felt that spirit-based work and money were mutually exclusive, that to have one meant you had to swear off the other.  Over the past year I’ve seen example after example of entrepreneurs who are beautifully combining the two.  As I questioned my beliefs in this area I realized that I do believe that BEING FINANCIALLY SUCCESSFUL IS MY SPIRITUAL PATH.  In fact, I believe it will be the thing that allows me to have the large-scale impact my heart longs for.  Not a small task, I know, but in many ways I feel ready to break through this mental barrier.  Thanks to all my mentors this year who have modeled ‘the alternative’ so beautifully!

December 18 – Theme of the Day: TryWhat do you want to try next year? Is there something you wanted to try in 2010? What happened when you did / didn’t go for it?

In 2011 I want to take my business seriously and stop treating it as a hobby.  I wanted this in 2010 as well but hadn’t done enough of my internal work to be ready to step out in this way.  I was ‘getting ready to be ready.’  I can feel that something’s changed.  I have a different kind of energy and mindset about my business.  I am making decisions and finding the mentors I need to take me there.  I refuse to go through another year of the pain of knowing that people need my work but I don’t have the courage to put it out there yet…

December 19 – Theme of the Day: HealingWhat healed you this year?  Was it sudden, or a drip-by-drip evolution?  How would you like to be healed in 2011?

Nothing comes up for me on this one.  I think that’s because I have a hard time with the word healing.  In actuality, I’ve been fighting a bit with this word lately.  I think it’s because I sense that my coaching work is really ‘emotional healing work’ but I have a hard time owning that.  Perhaps that’s why I’m blocked on this question.  Hmmm….

In terms of 2011, I’d like to have a more loving relationship with my body, one that’s consistently positive, not love/hate.  I think accepting my body, with all its strengths and weaknesses, would bring me great healing in 2011.

December 20 – Theme of the Day: Beyond AvoidanceWhat should you have done this year but didn’t because you were too scared, worried, unsure, busy or otherwise deterred from doing?

Same as Day 18 – not giving my business my all.  I had known for awhile that coaching was my vehicle, but I had felt like I was missing my engine (the purpose).  When I found my purpose (helping people deal with adversity) back in April, instead of it being this instantaneous “GO!” it ended up paralyzing me.  Instead of the clarity making it easier to act, everything felt too important to mess up on now.  I mean, we’re talking about MY LIFE’S PURPOSE HERE!  You don’t mess around when it comes to that, right?  Suffice to say that I was quite stuck for the majority of the year.

December 21 – Theme of the Day: Future SelfImagine yourself five years from now. What advice would you give your current self for the year ahead?

It is not okay for you to hide.  People need to hear your message.  I know that sounds scary, but for some of them, you’re the only one they can hear it from.  So suck it up and get out there because they need you big time Sarah.  Like, no kidding, time is of the essence here.  Follow your heart, take inspired action and I promise you, you can’t go wrong.  You were BORN for this purpose.  Trust that you can handle whatever comes your way.  And remember, Source will always be your partner, so don’t think you’re alone in this!

December 22 – Theme of the Day: TravelHow did you travel in 2010?  How and/or where would you like to travel next year?

Our travel in 2010 was really centered on exploring the Southeast Asia region.  Our beloved Cebu Pacific Airline made it possible for us to fly to 10 or so destinations for less than $150 round trip (each).  Since we have no kids yet, we really took advantage of this opportunity to travel and were able to hit the following places in 2010:

January: Bangkok, Thailand
February: Donsol, Philippines
March: Batanes, Philippines
April: Boracay, Philippines
May: Cebu, Philippines
June:  Bohol, Philippines
July:  Shanghai, China
August:  BREAK  :)
September:  United States
October: Hong Kong, China
November: New Zealand , Australia
December: Puerto Gallera, Philippines

I’m really proud of what we accomplished in 2010 travel-wise and know that there will be very few years in our life when I can say that I’ve visited that many places.  For 2011 I sense that my travel is closer to home; that it’s about rediscovering what’s right around me.  For the first 6 months of the year, that means **FINALLY** getting to all the Manila destinations that I’ve been saying I’d visit for the last year and a half.  For the second half of the year, it’s about reacquainting myself with my homelands (both Minnesota and Washington, D.C.) and appreciating all that I love about them.


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Reverb10: Installment 2

by Sarah Novak on December 16, 2010

Hi All- One of my favorite annual traditions is to reflect on the year I’m finishing and set some intentions for the year ahead.  This year I happened to stumble across a really great tool that is facilitating the process for me.  It’s an online writing initiative titled #Reverb10.

So what is it?  Basically, #Reverb10 is an online initiative that encourages participants to reflect on the year past and manifest what’s next for them.  Essentially, it’s an opportunity to consider the reverberations of your past year, and be intentional about those you’d like to create in the year ahead.

This process is facilitated using a question a day from 31 different authors.  Each day has a specific theme to it, which you’ll see noted below.  The questions (or prompts, as they call them) can be found here: THE PROMPTS.  Each one is meant to cause reflection on a different aspect of your life and help you determine if you’d like to shift anything about that area in 2011.

This is my second installment of questions.  You can find the first HERE.

December 8 – Theme of the Day: Beautifully Different.  Think about what makes you different and what you do that lights people up. Reflect on all the things that make you different – you’ll find they’re what make you beautiful.

What makes me different:

  • I radiate joy!  My energy is infectious and naturally draws others toward me.
  • I am a masterful creator who can take ideas from conception to completion in no time at all.
  • I have very powerful intuition and can key in to the energetic states of those I am with.
  • While coaching is my profession’s descriptor, I feel that what I actually do is emotional healing on a soul level.
  • I have a never-ending love for life.

December 9 – Theme of the Day: Party.  What social gathering rocked your socks off in 2010? Describe the people, music, food, drink, clothes, shenanigans.

The party that sticks with me most in 2010 was the Day I Spent In Bulacan with my Carewell Friends.  What was so unique about this party was that it was a complete and absolute celebration of life.  While the party came about ‘just because’, we found a real reason to celebrate when one of the attendees announced that her scan had come back cancer free!

As for the tangibles, I remember that the clothes were few (it was too hot), the food was plentiful and the karaoke machine rocked for hours.  What I’ll never forget though is the vibrancy of their beings and how intoxicating it was to be in their presence!  They were so ALIVE, despite the fact that many of them were dealing with stage-4 cancer.

December 10 – Theme of the Day: Wisdom.  What was the wisest decision you made this year, and how did it play out?

After serious deliberation I’m going to have to declare a tie for my two wisest decisions this year because they’ve both felt so intuitively ‘right’ and taken my life in totally awesome new directions.  The first was my decision to choose cancer patients as the population that I was going to focus on for my coaching.  This made no sense from a head standpoint because I’ve never had cancer, but from a heart place I’ve never felt more sure of my choice.  I truly believe that even more than chosen, I’ve been anointed to do this work, whether I’m ready for it or not.

Wise decision two was my choice to begin tithing.  That practice has been so incredibly soul-satisfying and taught me on a whole new level what abundance feels like.  The method in which I’ve chosen to tithe is so in sync with who I am, creating a sacred space for me to honor the chosen individual and thank the Universe for all the blessings that continue to flow through my life.

December 11 – Theme of the Day: 11 Things.  What are 11 things your life doesn’t need in 2011?

  1. Self-doubt
  2. Playing small
  3. To not take my work seriously
  4. Fear-based motivation
  5. Tunnel-vision
  6. Copying instead of creating
  7. Rational, analytic decision making – I’m better when I choose from my heart/intuition
  8. Anxiety
  9. Impatience
  10. Too much time hanging out with my gremlin

How will you go about eliminating them? I will notice and name the emotion I’m feeling, then determine what thought caused me to feel that way.  I will then ask myself why I’m choosing to feel this way and if I want to do something about it.

How will getting rid of these 11 things change your life? It will help me fulfill my goal of living from a place of Inspired Action.

December 12 – Theme of the Day: Body Integration. This year, when did you feel the most integrated with your body?  Did you have a moment where there wasn’t mind and body, but simply a cohesive YOU, alive and present?

I have a very challenging time being present in my body, so this is definitely the toughest question for me today.  I did not have a moment this year when my mind and body felt cohesive (they’re usually at war and I suspect will be for a long time), but I did have just a cool body moment that I’ll share.

When I was assisting with training a new batch of coaches this fall, I felt myself overcome by this immense pride for my profession and the fact that I get paid to do this life-changing work.  And compounding that was the realization that I was helping to ‘birth’ new coaches who would also change lives.  It was a bit too much to take in and I noticed that my whole body started to tingle.  Now usually when I have a sensation like that it flares and quickly passes.  This was very different, as the tingling stayed with me for hours.  I have no idea what was happening on a physiological level, but the entire experience was very moving and once again affirmed to me that I’ve found my life’s work.

December 13 – Theme of the Day: Action.  When it comes to aspirations, it’s not about ideas.  It’s about making ideas happen. What’s your next step?

I’ve hired a coach for myself in 2011 and feel confident that she’s going to help me unearth some of the blocks that are preventing me from stepping into my greatness.

December 14 – Theme of the Day: Appreciate.  What’s the one thing you have come to appreciate most in the past year?  How do you express gratitude for it?

Oh, this is an easy one: My husband, Nicholas.  He has been so insanely rock-solid over the last year.  My husband is truly unwavering in his love and support for me.  Given that I embrace the full range of my emotions (and frequently am at the extremes), I’ve come to appreciate his even-keeled nature.  He truly is the yin to my yang and we make beautiful music together.

I express gratitude for him in small ways – saying I love him, scratching his head, acknowledging him when I witness him doing something remarkable, and being his champion.

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Reverb10: Adding My Voice to the Mix

by Sarah Novak on December 10, 2010

Hi All- One of my favorite annual traditions is to reflect on the year I’m finishing and set some intentions for the year ahead.  This year I happened to stumble across a really great tool that is facilitating the process for me.  It’s an online writing initiative titled #Reverb10.

So what is it?  Basically, #Reverb10 is an online initiative that encourages participants to reflect on the year past and manifest what’s next for them.  Essentially, it’s an opportunity to consider the reverberations of your past year, and be intentional about those you’d like to create in the year ahead.

This process is facilitated using a question a day from 31 different authors.  Each day has a specific theme to it, which you’ll see noted below.  The questions (or prompts, as they call them) can be found here: THE PROMPTS.  Each one is meant to cause reflection on a different aspect of your life and help you determine if you’d like to shift anything about that area in 2011.

I just found out about this initiative recently, so I’m already a few days behind.  I’ll most likely be posting once or twice a week throughout December and answering 5 questions per post.  Many people are posting everyday and a big part of the dialogue is going on via Twitter.  Love it, love it, love it!  Do check out the website, especially if you’re needing a little introspection around this time of year….

My Reverbs

December 1 – Theme of the Day: One Word.  Encapsulate the year 2010 in one word. Explain why you’re choosing that word. Now, imagine it’s one year from today, what would you like the word to be that captures 2011 for you?

For 2010 my word was TRUST.  Trust that I could find my way as a entrepreneur.  Trust that I could lean into my new marriage for anything I needed.

For 2011 my word (actually a phrase) is INSPIRED ACTION.  I’m tired copycatting instead of creating, following the herd instead of charting my own course.  This year I’m acting on the things that light me up, in a grand and glorious attempt to break out of “the shoulds” once and for all.

December 2 – Theme of the Day: On Writing.  What do you do each day that doesn’t contribute to your writing — and can you eliminate it?

I fear defending what I’ve written.  It’s scary to take a stance because then you have to stand by it!  It’s so much easier to just write passively, but passivity isn’t what inspires others to take bold action.  In 2011, I’m going to work not only on using my voice more, but believing that I have something of value to say.  Thankfully, my husband is a great role model for this and I know I can lean on him for encouragement.

December 3 – Moment. Pick one moment during which you felt most alive this year. Describe it in vivid detail (texture, smells, voices, noises, colors).

The moment that really stands out from 2010 was the opportunity we had back in February to swim with the whale sharks.  This activity really stretched me, as I was nervous about the physicality of this event in addition to the simple fact that we’d be swimming next to an animal with the word ‘shark’ in its name.  The decision to go for it was one of the best I made all year.

Here’s what I remember: There I was, swimming around in Plankton-rich, turquoise-blue water when a whale shark surfaced 5-10 feet directly below me.  It moved with effortless grace and seemed like only seconds before it had pulled me into its rhythm.  It was a moment of pure awe, flowing along with this gentle giant.  At times I could forget that others were around me.  It was just the whale and I moving as one with the water drowning out the chaos above.  I felt suspended in time, completely confounded by the power and beauty of the natural world.  It is a moment that will remain forever frozen in my mind.

In case you want to get a sense of what it was like, check out this video we made of the experience: VIDEO

December 4 – Theme of the Day: Wonder. How did you cultivate a sense of wonder in your life this year?

Wonder and Coaching went hand-in-hand for me this year and didn’t take much cultivating at all.  In fact, I think it’s more accurate to say that wonder chose me.  Here are a few of the ways I saw it show up:

I had moments of complete wonder (and awe) as I felt Spirit coaching through me; showing me how to coach someone who couldn’t speak, knowing when to hold someone instead of using meaningless words, placing the perfect question on my tongue that would spark that client to inspired action… the list goes on and on.  Suffice to say it was impossible NOT to notice it.

Wonder also showed up in the form of my new client population: the men and women fighting daily battles with Cancer.  It was impossible not to marvel in wonder at the remarkable resilience of the human spirit.  I have learned so much from them this year, especially in regards to courage.

December 5 – Theme of the Day: Let Go. What (or whom) did you let go of this year? Why?

I let go of my 20′s and embraced the new decade with joy and anticipation.  I have this great feeling about my 30′s, that they’re going to blow my 20′s out of the water (so to speak) with how on-purpose and boundary-pushing they are.  Even I have a hard time imagining this, as my 20′s were rife with change.  I guess we’ll see….at least my 20′s have prepared me well to expect the unexpected!

December 6 – Make. What was the last thing you made? What materials did you use? Is there something you want to make, but you need to clear some time for it?

The most recent thing I made was a collage on Photoshop.  It made use of my favorite medium lately, digital materials, which can be easily manipulated, beautified and tweaked repeatedly.  There’s no way to mess a digital project up permanently because you can always press the undo button!  Happily, this eliminates the biggest deterrent that shows up for me when creating, which is the idea of messing up and having to start over.

December 7 – Theme of the Day: Community. Where have you discovered community, online or otherwise, in 2010? What community would you like to join, create or more deeply connect with in 2011?

I’ve always been a big fan of community (and being a part of as many as I can).  What surprised me in 2010 was that my communities began to take on different forms and were no longer tied to physical location.  These virtual friends invited to me to their homes, offered to send clothes to Manila for Friendship Home and lovingly donated to our Holiday Project.  It has really shifted my idea of what friendships can look like (and made me very addicted to my computer, where my friends ‘live’).

For 2011 I hope to become a parent and would enjoy sharing that bond with other mothers and fathers.  I feel more and more like I’m ready to be a part of that group.  I hope God has it in his plans for us…

And that’s all I’ve got for today folks, hope you enjoyed it!  Please let me know if you’re participating in #reverb10 so I can check out how you answered the prompts!

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